10 Proven Ways to Boost Your Child’s Executive Functioning Skills for Back-to-School Success

Written By Sarah Fowler

Introduction

As the school year kicks off, many children face challenges with executive functioning, the cognitive skills that help plan, stay organized, focus attention, switch between tasks, and manage emotions. These skills develop over time and are essential for academic success and everyday life.

Thankfully, parents play a powerful role in nurturing these abilities through modeling, scaffolded support, and consistent practices.

1. Start Small: Break Tasks into Manageable Steps

visual schedule to help support executive functioning in students returning to school

Use checklists or visual organizers to help your child manage multi-step routines like morning preparations or homework sessions. Breaking tasks into small, clear steps reduces overwhelm and promotes independence (Chicago Psychotherapy PLLC).

Tip: Hang a visual checklist for the morning routine. For homework projects, help your child plan backward—starting from the due date.

2. Use Planners and Reminders Effectively

Children with executive challenges often struggle with working memory. Using a planner or assignment log and teaching them to jot down assignments immediately is a powerful strategy (Verywell Health+14Child Mind Institute+14Psychology Today+14).

Set alarms for transitions such as homework time, packing backpacks, or bedtime to support time awareness (Verywell Health+3The Inspired Treehouse+3ScienceDirect+3).

3. Establish Routines and Predictable Structures

A daily routine, especially around homework and bedtime, offers stability and builds executive habits. Consistency reduces decision fatigue and gives your child internal cues to get started (Learning Success+5Chicago Psychotherapy PLLC+5Harvard Health+5).

4. Turn Practice into Play

Engage your child with rules-based games, role-play, and multisensory activities that naturally strengthen executive skills like working memory, flexibility, and impulse control. Physical games like jump rope, soccer, and double-Dutch also support mental flexibility and planning (Harvard Center on Developing Child).

Additionally, board‑game curricula, especially those with narrative frameworks or token rewards, have shown promise in improving working memory in classroom contexts (SpringerLink).

5. Encourage Unstructured, Free Play

Allowing time for less-structured play without screens or overly planned activities supports self-directed executive functioning. One study found that children with more free time performed better on tasks requiring organization and flexible thinking (TIME).

6. Prioritize Physical Activity

Regular aerobic and movement-based activities boost attention, working memory, and inhibitory control. Active play influences brain systems related to executive function, such as the prefrontal cortex (BioMed Central+15Harvard Health+15Wellington Counseling Group+15).

Even modest daily activity like walking, dancing, or organized play can support cognitive control.

7. Model Executive Skills and Use Reflective Conversations

Talk through your own planning and problem-solving (“metacognition”) out loud. For instance, walk your child through grocery list creation or how you tackle a scheduling conflict, this models how to think about thinking (Dr. RoseannChicago Psychotherapy PLLC).

After challenges, use Socratic questioning (“What happened? What could we try next time?”) rather than directives. This builds self-reflection skills (Chicago Psychotherapy PLLC).

8. Adopt a Supportive, Growth-Mindset Approach

Reframe your role from “nagging” to “scaffolding.” Recognize that struggles with organization or initiation are not laziness, they reflect undeveloped skills (Learning Success).

Celebrate small wins, finishing a task, organizing a binder, and remembering to turn in homework. Positive reinforcement boosts motivation and confidence (Learning SuccessChild Mind Institute).

9. Collaborate with Educators and Monitor Growth

Stay in touch with teachers about strategies your child is learning in school. Consistent methods at home reinforce school-based interventions (Learning SuccessChild Mind Institute).

If challenges persist, consider professional support. Global Education Therapy would be happy to help!

10. Build Emotional Resilience Over Time

Strong parenting practices such as warm support and positive routines can reduce executive difficulties over the long run and promote self-regulation and resilience in later childhood (Wellington Counseling Group+4BioMed Central+4Child Mind Institute+4.

Final Thoughts

Supporting your child’s executive functioning as school resumes isn’t about fixing a deficit, it’s about cultivating a set of skills through patience, partnership, and creativity. With routines, playful challenges, and your empathetic presence, you’re helping build a foundation for school success and lifelong growth.

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